THE INTENTIONAL DATER JOURNAL
WHY THIS JOURNAL
Matters
You’re not alone. Dating today can feel like a cycle of dead ends and disappointment. But
maybe the issue isn’t dating itself—it’s the way we enter into it, unprepared and unsure of what
really matters.
The Intentional Dater: Questions That Matter isn’t your typical journal. It’s a guide. A mirror. A
tool that helps you reflect, assess, and ask the right questions before you're emotionally invested.
This journal is for:
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Men and women who want more than surface-level conversation
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Anyone seeking clarity before committing
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Those who are ready to date smarter—not just harder
WHAT'S
Inside
Who
IS IT FOR?
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100 thoughtful, conversation-sparking questions
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Self-reflection prompts to assess your own readiness
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A space to process what you really want from your next relationship
Whether you’re:
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Fresh out of a relationship
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Coming back after healing
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Actively dating and frustrated
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Or just curious about what you really want
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This journal helps you date with intention and walk in clarity.
ABOUT THE
Author
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MEET SHEKERIA HENDRIX
Shekeria never set out to write a dating journal. Like many, she thought she had her love story figured out — until life unfolded differently. Having been married and later navigating the reality that her marriage did not work out, Shekeria found herself starting over: newly single, healing, and asking deeper questions about love, self-worth, and purpose.
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Drawing from her own relationship experiences—the highs, the heartbreaks, and the in-betweens—Shekeria understands firsthand the complexities and emotions tied to dating. She knows what it feels like to hope, to be hurt, and to still choose wholeness over settling. Today, she embraces her single season intentionally, seeing it not as a waiting room but as an empowered space for growth and clarity.
The Intentional Dater: Questions That Matter was born from this very place: a blend of life lessons, therapy insights, faith, and real conversations with both men and women about what it truly means to date with purpose.​
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Through this journal, Shekeria isn’t claiming to have all the answers—rather, she offers thoughtful tools and reflections from someone who’s walked the path, asked the hard questions, and continues to choose hope and intentionality every day.
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She lives in Georgia and is passionate about helping others heal, grow, and approach relationships with wisdom, joy, and a deeper understanding of their own worth.
